This happened to me. This was a part of my child abuse when I was young. My mother would tell this to me when I was an adult. and thought it was funny. She would say “you never did it again.” I never said anything to her. Even as an adult I was afraid to speak up. She never cleaned me up. Her cousin, who later abused me cleaned the poop from my face. How could someone do this to their child. She said I was “special” because they adopted me..Special yes right!!!! for her and my father to abuse me.